About Me
When I graduated with my psychology degree, I thought I’d feel proud. I’d spent years studying hard, diving into the complexities of human behavior and mental processes. It wasn’t easy, but I pushed through and succeeded. Yet instead of excitement about my future, I felt lost. The thrill of finishing school quickly turned into uncertainty. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, and that feeling of being stuck was overwhelming.
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One thing had always been clear: I wanted to help people. Throughout my education, I was drawn to roles that allowed me to support others. I was even recognized for my empathy and ability to connect with people. But knowing I wanted to help wasn’t enough. I still had to figure out how I was going to help others. There were so many choices, therapy, research, counseling, and I wasn’t sure which one aligned with my passion and purpose. As time passed, the pressure to make a decision increased, and the weight of indecision became harder to handle.
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My Path to Becoming a Success Coach
Have You Ever Felt Paralyzed By Indecision?
​​The months after graduation were some of the hardest in my life. I had just achieved something major, but I couldn’t celebrate because I felt paralyzed by indecision. I kept asking myself questions like, What if I never figure it out? What if I end up in a career I don’t care about? These thoughts were constant, affecting everything in my life. I spent countless hours researching different careers, hoping something would click. But the more I searched, the more lost I felt. I was waiting for a moment of clarity, but it didn’t come right away. Instead, I found myself overthinking everything.
I Needed A Change
Feeling lost was new for me. I had always been someone with a plan, someone who knew what the next step was. In fact, I’d earned a reputation for being goal-oriented and driven, traits that helped me graduate with honors. But now, with no plan, my confidence started to fade. I realized I couldn’t keep living in this cycle of indecision. I needed clarity, not just about my career, but about my life. It was time for a change.
I started reflect on the moments in my life when I felt most fulfilled. I thought about the times when I truly felt I was making a difference. It became clear to me that helping others had always been my guiding force. But I needed to figure out how to turn that into a career that was meaningful to me. I started journaling, reading personal development books, and talking to mentors who had faced similar struggles. Slowly, I realized that the real question wasn’t, What career should I choose? It was deeper than that. The real question was, what kind of life do I want to live? Clarity wasn’t just about picking a job, it was about understanding the values that would guide all my decisions.
A New Perspective
I came to understand that my purpose wasn’t just to help people in any way. It was to guide others through the same struggles I had experienced. I knew what it was like to feel stuck and overwhelmed, and I realized I could help others move past those feelings. I didn’t need to have all the answers, I just needed to be a few steps ahead of those I was helping, showing them how to move from confusion to clarity. This shift in perspective was a major turning point for me.
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With this newfound clarity, I stopped worrying about finding the “perfect” career. Instead, I focused on aligning my life with my core values: helping others, creating positive change, and encouraging growth. Becoming a success coach felt like a natural fit. I started taking steps to build my career, earning certifications to make sure I had the skills to help others effectively. With each step, my purpose became clearer, and I became more confident in my path.
As I started coaching, I saw firsthand the impact of my work. I was helping professional men who, like me, had once felt stuck and overwhelmed. I watched them gain clarity, set meaningful goals, and achieve things they didn’t think were possible. Seeing their progress confirmed that I had found my calling. Coaching wasn’t just a career for me, it was a way to make a real difference in people’s lives.
Today, I continue to coach professional men, guiding them through their own journeys of growth and self-discovery. I help them move from feeling stuck to finding purpose, and from feeling overwhelmed to becoming focused. Helping others gain clarity and direction is how I live out my purpose. My journey taught me that finding the right career isn’t always the answer. It’s about understanding yourself, aligning your actions with your values, and living a life that’s meaningful.